Yearly Archives: 2016

After 6 years of marriage A LOT changes!  We no longer worry about the small stuff and by that I mean I no longer worry about using the bathroom in front of him! 🙂  😉 😉  You see I truly used to worry about that!  In fact, I have to tell you a funny story… I worried so much about that in the beginning that Tuck threatened to take all the doors off the hinges the day we got back from our honeymoon!  He’s a big believer in the couple that has no barriers stays together!

Tuck has always been the one in all of our six years together to break down walls and barriers!  He’s always been the solid one where I have always been the dreamer and the one who feels we should be enjoying sushi dates and picnic dinners on the floor!  This is why we work though because while he’s the one that has his feet so solidly on the ground it allows me to bring in the crazy fun and sometimes the bit that isn’t so realistic!  Now don’t get me wrong… he’s nuts as well!  He has the craziest dance moves and often can be heard singing loudly with much bravado to Linc’s dismay!  I’m also sure that when Linc’s a teen, daddy will be the one that is causing all the embarrassing scenes (and I will live for those days!)

This is what marriage is though!  Sometimes I think we tend to get marriage all wrong and I’m not sure photography helps all that much.  Now trust me… I love love LOVE all the wedding images, especially the dreamy romantic portrait images and I wish that I had prioritized them more on the day of my own wedding, but truth be told it was windy and I was a baby and cold.  I also knew I had a trash the dress the next day!  I love those romantic images and they totally filled our house for the longest time!  But after six years of marriage to my true best friend, I do believe that we get marriage a bit mixed up!  It’s not easy!  It’s not all nuzzles and kisses and romantic walks in fields of green grass with sunsets and golden hours.  In fact, that golden hour sets and the real world comes fast and hard… it especially did for us and we have had it really easy compared to a lot of people!   We learned that you have to make your own golden hours and find your grassy fields and figure out how to navigate through some of the rain storms to find that peaceful place where you can sit and have your dinner picnic!

After six years of marriage, I’ve learned that marrying someone who makes you laugh is one of the best gifts I could have ever been given!  I’ve learned that laughter can heal anything in the world! I’ve learned that someone who is willing to take doors of the hinges is willing to take on any problem in life!  After six years of marriage I’ve learned that having an argument is sometimes the best way to get through to the laughter (and trust me we’ve had some arguments… mostly about legos on the floor… damn those things hurt and what’s for dinner).  After six years of marriage I’ve learned to respect his scrooge like ways and to appreciate his ability to plan for the future!  He’s learned to appreciate my excitability and my “family first can’t take it with you” approach to life.  We’ve learned together how amazingly we balance each other out!

After six years of marriage we have learned we always need poo-pouri in our house! 😉

After six years of marriage we have learned to set aside time for each other and what that means in terms of each other’s “love language”!

That’s important!

So here’s to another sixty more years my best friend!!!

We were such babies in theses images!  It makes me giggle!  Thank you Andi and Zoe grant for capturing these!!!

 

 

Children and Family Lifestyle Photographer Brooke Tucker

Happy Friday everyone!!!  Hooray for the weekend right?!

I’m so excited this morning to share this beautiful beachy session with a family that I just adore!  Where do I even begin with the incredibly fun, beach loving family?!  I’ve known Krystin and Vince for a while now and I have been incredibly blessed to be a part of some truly magical moments with them from their wedding to all the firsts with G and again with baby N!  Krystin and Vince have believed in me and supported me in truly taking children and family photography to more than just one session at a time!  They are the foundation of my belief in becoming a “lifetime photographer!”

These guys are the absolute coolest parents, when I grow up I kind of want to be them!  They invite life and adventure into their world and family with full acceptance!  They travel the world and grow their family at the same time!  They live each day fully and enjoy every detail from the tiniest to the big and wild!

I was so excited to be able to spend time with them when I went back home to Virginia Beach in September!  We had a bit of a time trying to nail down a time to meet thanks to tropical storm Hermine but when we were finally able to get together we couldn’t have asked for a better night at the beach! Here are some of my very favorite images from our play time together!  I can’t believe how big the littles are getting!  I know it happens but I kind of want these two especially to stay this little forever!  I also want Krystin and Vince to make all the babies because seriously, aren’t this littles adorable?!!!

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Oh this hat! Isn’t she just the cutest thing ever in this sun hat?!!!

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Krystin and Vince: Thank you both so much for inviting me into your family! Thank you for meeting me all the way out in Back Bay in the midst of a tropical storm! Thank you for playing in the sand and the waves! I love you all so so much and I can’t wait to see you soon!
xo

HI ya’ll!  I’m Brooke!  I’m a chip loving, coca-cola drinking boy mom and I raise my hand in full admission (admission?!) admittance.. that’s right!  In full admittance that up until recently I was a photographer that always always always shot up close and too tight!

Now you might be saying… no way!  That’s impossible!  You can’t ever shoot too close or too tight!  I LOVE that style!  That’s my favorite type of portrait!!!  And to that response my friend, I would say… “YES, me too!”  Obviously right?!”

Until… I just found myself not loving it all too much and that range was kind of lacking.  I found myself longing after portraits that weren’t absolutely focused on just my subjects, but that also included the details around them!  I started to feel like I needed some depth and some growth and so I came up with 3 reasons why I decided to start pulling back and including MORE in my portraits instead of just my subjects!

A lot of this reasons or tips, if you will, are completely personal to me and my experience, so take what you want and apply what works to you!  If something doesn’t fit then no big deal!  I just love to share my heart and in this business we succeed and grow by doing just that!

  1.  It Tells A Story!  This is absolutely the most important reason for me personally and professionally!  This is why we absolutely should use different angles and if we have different lenses, why we should bring them all to the party!  If you only have one lens, that’s OK too… all you have to do is move your feet to make these angles work!    When we move our feet, use different angles, vary our focal length and switch up our perspective a bit we start to include all the details that sometimes get missed when we shoot only our clients in those tight up close portraits!  I love to include the environment especially when I shoot in my clients homes:  as a parent I think small clutter and children’s “messes” are fantastic pieces of details to capture.  They are often overlooked and time flies by so fast that one day I know my clients will look back on those images and smile because that pile of clutter on the desk might not always be there!  Those shoes tucked under the bed next to a beloved guitar will be too small all too soon!  Also don’t forget to keep the camera moving even when the session is “over”!  Sometimes those story telling moments happen as the clients are walking away, or getting into the car!  Those moments are fantastic as pull back moments and capture so much of the bond that exists between parent and child!

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  1. Printing! This is a great reason to make sure you have all different angles and variations covered from pull backs to close ups and the in between!  Your clients want to print their images!  They want to fill their houses with stunning pictures and what they should see in them is their lives reflected back in true art form!  They should have images that can be printed and placed in a beautiful 4×6 frame and at the same time images that can fill a stunning canvas!  I have to share a personal story with you when I talk about printing!  I always have to laugh when I think about printing out large canvas images!  When Tuck and I were getting married, we decided to do the typical print a picture and have everyone present at the wedding sign the border.  I am awful at measurements and so when I ordered our image (which was a beautiful image… up close and personal because that’s what I loved) I ordered what I thought would be a relatively modest print!  Ohhh friends… it was not!  Not. At. All!  It was extremely large and by all standards, narcissistic!  I was so embarrassed but what are you going to do!  It’s hanging in our bedroom now and it’s signed and it’s a great reminder of all those that we love.  BUT… it reminds me now that prints that large should absolutely tell a story and be filled with something other than just people!  A print that large really should be a body of art and be filled with details of everything surrounding the couple or family and that day and the heart behind the moment!

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  1. It Allows Our Clients To View Themselves with the Loveliest of Eyes:  Ok, I know what you’re thinking but I promise you this is the honest truth~  When you give someone a gallery that tells them a story of their lives that is filled with all this visual information from the tiniest of details to the biggest of details about their family, themselves, their love, their personalities, and most importantly about a specific moment in their lives… it actually allows them to connect with the emotions from that time!  It overwhelms their senses and helps them to connect with grace and kindness to who they are rather self critiquing, which we all have a tendency to do!  This is truly incredible to watch, especially as a mama!  We always feel self-conscious, all of us.  So if we can grant ourselves one day off and give ourselves a little grace and a little patience… why not?!

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These are just 3 of the reasons I decided to finally move my feet and open up my gear bag!  I still love a great up close portrait, don’t get me wrong,  but there is a special place now in my heart (and in my house) for those dreamy pull back shots that include all of the details of the day!  There is also not a single gallery that won’t be filled with a ton of angles that tell a story for every one of my clients!

To see more of what I’m talking about, check out this spontaneous lifestyle session!  You will see how taking your time and remembering to shoot with different equipment and angles gives you the entire story of the evening!

Xoxo and happy hump day friends!